
A popular site that I hate alot, but seems to work when it comes to advertising is myspace.com. I know, it's butt ugly and has bad HTML markup, but there are so many things on there. The FPSes you buy have an advantage; they have advertising, and you can see it in stores. If we get enough "friends" added to it, the word would spread. Mabie also if we try to get a review on gamespot.com, we could get some more people on.
I don't know what you mean by the "North American pro gaming community". I'm a big fan of FPSes, and I play nexuiz just as much as I play my other games. I think I sort of understand by the feel of a pro gamer game, but it's still a bit sketchy to me, pardon my misconceptions.
Oh yeah, there are some north American servers that are good. The one thing that we probably should have is one hosted in California, but I host my own here in new york.
But I do however like the extra "tricks", you should add those to the normal release.