Well, its decided then, We consult Holly Err sorry too much Red Dwarf!
I've talked briefly with one of the admins and he was kind enough to give me the master passwd and i know xeno also got it. so If any problems should arise on the beginners server, please just say my nick Vociferous i'll be notified via IRC and if i'm near my computer (I work from home a lot so theres a good chance) i'll gladly help out!
I completely agree with xeno that this is unacceptable behavior. with 20/20 hindsight i would never have continued to play nexuiz if i hadn't gotten on to irc and gotten a lot of pointers from the l33t players. granted that was before the beginners server existed. I don't think that many come to irc when trying out the game. So to help newcomers have a good time, this is something we should take seriously.