yes yes yes, but what about the idea of clicking fire button inmidst of chat, returning to fight, and resuming to type the message afterwards? I kinda happen to like that. Not demanding stuff, but wanting to know what other people think about it.
If you managed to collect lots of weapons and suddenly have to check for the kids or stuff then I say get to spectator mode or accept to get killed. I mean, the weapons are not THAT precious, are they? And except for your armor your health will be below the respawning value anyway, when you return.
And I agree that the "carrying the flag" icon could be a bit more expressive. But in my opinion that should go into another topic.