well i finally have a good news, i found a way to stop nexuiz from freezing. But i dont feel completely satisfied because I dont know what was causing it to happen.
what i did is use the n_lo.cfg config as stated in this post:
http://www.alientrap.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1628
and enable vertical refresh rate sync.
what i would like to understand is why when i use this config (in witch there is line that set nexuiz to use 800*600 resolution) the real monitor resolution switch to 1600*1200 instead of 800*600.
i tried to use only vertical sync , but that way nexuiz was still freezing and gave the impression that everyting was real slowwww.
only the combination of n_lo.cfg and vertical sync(70fps) stop the freezing and give fast and smooth gameplay, even smoother then when it is at 300fps
any enlightment on what is really happening would be much appreciated.
thanks for all the suggestions that where proposed to me.