
I assume that my problem is not related to the evdev problem, especially since the symptoms are different. Not all mouse events are affected, only movements, and they are not delayed, but completely discarded.
My problem can be split in 2 parts:
(A) rare mouse movement failures. This happened with recent SVN versions and also with the final 2.5 release, if I disable cl_maxfps.
(B) extreme mouse movement failures. This happens with the official 2.5 release if I use cl_maxfps.
It is difficult to prove that (A) does not happen, because it might not occur for a long time.
I now found a solution that eliminates at least (B): I compiled 2.5 myself. The Nexuiz part is the 2.5 tag, Darkplaces is most recent. It seems the official compile cause the transition from (A) to (B).
I will check if (A) is still present with my compile, but I assume it will (which is also annoying).