[DRUNK + EMO] 7 years vs...

[The mysterious Mr. 4m]

People are weird, especially in love matters. It's hard to cope with something that's powered by magic. To quote the great Confoozyous (not to confuse with Confucius):

"Water seems wetter when raining."
or
"Love is like math book - Full of riddles."

Does that help You? Probably not.

How about this:
Life is like an empty cup of coffee.
Hard and cold on the outside and the inside lacks content.
Somebody stole my sugar.
And my spoon fell down.

You could also get a t-shirt...
"I got broken up with and all I got was this lousy t-shirt."


All the best, man. All the best.

[Captain Haddock]

Yeah that's bullshit man you know what i agree with TVR, she def not the one to marry. A positive thing is your still young and got shit loads to achieve. I have a partner now, but was single for 6 years after my ex left me for another guy. I was not with her as long as your partner but i did love her in a way and i felt like something you cannot put into words but then i thought screw it there is so much work i need to do and things to achieve so i focused on this and it a way it helped me be better becuase i focused my saddness on someting positive. I refused to suffer anymore from another persons actions because i knew i was not totally to blame. I channeled my bitterness on my work and passions I know its quite simple thinking and took me quite a while to do this but it helped me I do not know if it will help you but its the best advice i can give. It seems like this girl is at fault not you given how much you were willing to sacrafice for her, and you have managed to cope this far i think with time you may feel better and have achieved alot already and much more to come.

[ai]

I have a partner now

Oh my god! You cheater! I want a divorce! How long has this been going on?

[divVerent]

(Off-topic reply, as I everything that I would say has already been said)

"Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting diffrent results is the definition of insanity"

So it's science, not madness.

[divVerent]

As I see, a pessimistic view on the topic has been deleted again. So I will hereby just mention the fact that it had been posted, for completeness's sake.

As for C.Brutail - I really wish you the best, but cannot tell you what to do. This is, unfortunately, something only you can work out with yourself now. But I recommend using the "gaming" and "doing useful stuff" method of dealing with it, and not the "b33r" one.

[Urmel]

Seven years sounds familiar to me. I suffered the same thing in my twen years. A little difference however, I already had spent more money that I had, and she was already having her new man fore some months before she quit. No, I quit, she wouldn't. I don't wanna talk about the details now, but all what happened back then was really creepy

After all, I had bad times and it took a bunch of years and some more or less lukewarm relationships until I badly fell in love again and married. And what I have now was worth all the trouble I had to pass before.

And you will see Brutail, that's the way it goes, that's the way it will happen to you and there's no bad thing without some really positive aspects who are not in evidence until being able to look back in a few years. So maybe shed some tears, but stop in time and go on going your own way. You've been wasting your time on only one girl long enough now

[PinkRobot]

Engagement after 8 months? If it's any consolation (I guess not), that won't last. My thoughts are with you C.B. You know you will come out of this better and happier than you could ever have been with her, but I also know how tough it is for you right now. Hang in there, b33r buddy.

[C.Brutail]

Thank you again my friends Your helpful words mean a lot to me.
Well yeah, I have plenty things to do, and afterall, I'm young, a great future lies me ahead...

I think I need to remember to my signature more

[halogene]

/me pats C.Brutail on the back

[MC SE7EN]

Engagement after 8 months? If it's any consolation (I guess not), that won't last. My thoughts are with you C.B. You know you will come out of this better and happier than you could ever have been with her, but I also know how tough it is for you right now. Hang in there, b33r buddy.

not that i have much to say on the topic, i just wanted to clear something up...my parents got engaged after a few months..like two or something..they were engaged for a whopping 2 weeks (give or take a few days)...theyre still married...short engagements sometimes work out pretty well..sometimes better than long ones..at least in the experience of my married friends and fam..